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How to Un-Dead Your Life
How to Un-Dead Your Life (Part 1 of 3)

Looking to live a livelier version of your life, now that the stranglehold of COVID is feeling a little less strangle-ey? Yeah, me too. So I consulted science on the matter and whittled the research down to the best of the best ways to un-dead ourselves. As a refresher, we’re talking about vitality here —...

Are You Living the Full Width of Your Life?
Are You Living the Full Width of Your Life?

Where would you plot yourself on this highly scientific vitality spectrum? Do you ever come across a quote so soul-stirring that it inexplicably jumps off the page, grabs you by the shoulders and slaps you in the face? In a good, “wake up to your life” kind of way? Here’s a personal favorite I’d like...

Career Breaking Points
What is Your Career Breaking Point?

Not if — but when — you are unhappy at work, what — if anything — do you do about it? a) Nothing... work is supposed to suck, and then we die. b) I quit... burning all the bridges behind me with strange satisfaction. c) I try to make it right... looking inward first to...

The Appreciation Scale
How (Un)Appreciative Are You? 55 Ways to Tell.

Gratitude. It’s a heavy hitter in the positive psychology world — in fierce competition with optimism as the most scientifically studied well-being construct out there. We’ll let the researchers duke it out in the lab, and in the meantime we’ll all benefit from the abundance of studies that tell us how thankful we need to...

Top Six Things that are Snuffing the Vitality Out of You
The Top Six Things that are Snuffing the Vitality Out of You

Let’s be clear on a few things before we get to today’s little listicle: Vitality is defined as a positive sense of aliveness and energy. Some call it our health of spirit which just sounds cool, right? This subjective feeling of aliveness is a big deal for our personal well-being, because the polar opposite sure...

16 Cool Things to Do with Your Cremains
16 Cool Things to Do with Your Cremains

Now that you’ve faced the facts of life that you will, in fact, kick the bucket one day, we can shift to the practical topic of what to actually do with yourself once you’ve expired. Statistically speaking, more than half of you will opt for the cremation route when it’s “your time,” so if you’re...

The Facts of Life for Adults
The Facts of Life for Adults

The facts of life when we’re kids are pretty tame compared to the facts of life for adults. As kids we learn about the birds and the bees who get to fly around and make whoopee all day (hopefully not with each other — those poor bees), whereas the adult facts of life are a...

What Your Worst Fears Say About You
What Your Worst Fears Say About You

Admit it — you got sucked in by the f-word. Fear. Dogs can smell it on you, and so can I. It’s not really hard to do — not much of a parlor trick at all, really (bucket list item #340: come up with a parlor trick before I die). You don’t need to be...

When Are You at Your Best in the Day?
When Are You at Your Best in the Day?

When are you at your best in the day? Pick the best answer that applies to your life: a) I’m a morning person b) I’m a night owl c) I’m amazingly productive all day + night long d) I never really manage to click into gear at all e) I don’t know; is that bad?...

4 Lessons for Spring Cleaning Your Life
4 Lessons for Spring Cleaning Your Life

Spring, as a season, needs a little PR help. Budding tulips and the smell of hope in the air are great and all, but spring has problems. Not only do we lose an hour of sleep, but we’re also supposed to do the one thing we like less than root canal: clean. Spring cleaning is...

At What Age Are You Old?
At What Age are You Old?

First things first: where do you fall on my highly scientific Distance-to-Death Scale? Are you old? And how would you know — does it have more to do with how you look, feel, or how you’re perceived by others? At what age are you no longer a spring chicken? (I haven’t been called one in...

10 Random Happiness Hacks, According to Science
10 Random Happiness Hacks, According to Science

There are things in life we know to be true about how to live “the good life,” and we’re sick and tired of hearing about them. We know money can’t buy us love (but it can buy us a bit of happiness). We know an apple a day keeps the doctor away (which is actually...

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